Choose and Decide....What make you happy?

Choose and Decide …What make you happy?

I’ve just joined the great seminar called “Landmark Forum” which I see my past more clearly on what I did and what I am going to. I like the concept of the seminar to make me keep the past in the past. I understand from the seminar that if I don’t keep the past in the past,how it will damage my future. However, a lesson that I want to share is about two words “Choose and Decide”

There is so many times in life that we have to choose, what if we know exactly that the way we choose is right? Whether you notice yourself or not, you always choose the choice that your inside intention push you to choose. Let’s get the easy example from my past path.

Choice ---->APLP -------->Choice (after APLP) -----> Self employed----

            ----->Huge money                                    -----> employee                    

Choice( after chose the job) --->cry on failure and back to salary base-----> go backward

                                            ---->smile to the fate and create new possiblities---> go forward

Choice----> Go Myanmar to see my beloved friends

           -----> enjoy the company free trip to the beach and full with extreme activities

Choice----> Stay with the old friends

    ----> Travel with the new one---Choice---> Complain on lack of infrastructure and hot temperature

                                                           ----> Look only positive way and find it as the new adventure

The seminar define the word 'Choose' as To select freely after consideration

and 'Decide' as To select based on consideration.

Therefore, when you choose, it's not about consideration on plus or minus. It's something that you put all your concern always and just choose it because you think it is the right way for you on that time.

It may sound unreasonable for someone who always under the reason to decide any choice.If you take a long time to worry before decide to do something, finally you do it anyway that mean you 'choose'

The only thing you can do after you chose is to be happy and be ready to face whatever it is and then go beyond all obstacles.

Someone gives me a good example on choosing in the marriage. If the two people chose each other that mean they don't need to complain about how bad their partner are because they chose to be together and accept each other from their inside intention.

However, if no matter how you try, you're still not comfortable that mean you chose the wrong choice. Before choosing again, it'd better to take time to reflect why did you choose this way and review all of your action toward this choice. Then if you see clearly that your reason or your intention is different from your action, it'd better to leave this way and create the new possibilities again.

Whenever you feel tried on what you do, ask yourself again did you choose this path?

             ( The picture took from the sky above Yangon airport. I name it as "chioces".)
                                                                                
                                                                                                                                      Best Wish to all,
                                                                                                                                                      Nam